I will always be my biggest critic. I will think people are saying something that they probably aren’t.
I’m not that important.
Society puts so much blame on other people, but just think, for a minute. When you look in the mirror, what do you say to yourself? Is it as bad as what somebody has actually said to you?
I don’t know about you, but I feel like I have to do things because I’m not the skinniest. I have to use the stairs. I can’t eat the donut. I can’t eat chocolate. I can’t do something for the fear that someone will think ‘well she’s fat so of course she does/doesn’t that’.
I’m my biggest fat shammer.
I put myself on a standard that’s different because I’m afraid of people saying ‘well it’s because..’. I’m like that in many parts of life, I don’t do things because I know I’m stronger than my weakness or struggle.
I don’t want anything to define me.
But, in the hopes of not letting people define me I define myself.
I’m not the skinniest girl. I don’t have to always use the stairs. I can eat the donut.
I can do whatever I want I don’t have to not do something for fear of the definition people will give me. I put all these unnecessary standards and expectations instead of living my life the best way I can, doing the things that are best for me.